fix(mcp): add RFC 9728 PRM, RFC 8707 audience binding, and collab sub-feature gating

Root cause: claude.ai's MCP connector (spec 2025-06-18) requires the resource server
to publish Protected Resource Metadata and return WWW-Authenticate on 401s to bind
the /mcp endpoint to its AS. Without these, it silently shows no tools after OAuth.

- Add /.well-known/oauth-protected-resource (RFC 9728) with addon gating
- Emit WWW-Authenticate: Bearer resource_metadata=... on 401/auth-failure 403s
- Open CORS (origin: *) on both .well-known/* endpoints per RFC 8414/9728
- Accept resource parameter at authorize + token endpoints (RFC 8707)
- Store audience on oauth_tokens; validate on every MCP request
- Refresh tokens inherit audience; add resource_parameter_supported to AS metadata
- DB migration: ADD COLUMN audience TEXT to oauth_tokens
- Gate collab MCP tools/resources by chat/notes/polls sub-features individually
- Invalidate MCP sessions when collab sub-features are toggled in admin
- Update test mocks and MCP.md

server/tests/unit/mcp/tools-vacay.test.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,7 @@ vi.mock('../../../src/websocket', () => ({ broadcast: broadcastMock }));
 
 vi.mock('../../../src/services/adminService', () => ({
   isAddonEnabled: vi.fn().mockReturnValue(true),
+  getCollabFeatures: vi.fn().mockReturnValue({ chat: true, notes: true, polls: true, whatsnext: true }),
 }));
 
 // Mock async service functions that make external calls