feat: email notifications, webhook support, ICS export — closes #110

Email Notifications:
- SMTP configuration in Admin > Settings (host, port, user, pass, from)
- App URL setting for email CTA links
- Webhook URL support (Discord, Slack, custom)
- Test email button with SMTP validation
- Beautiful HTML email template with TREK logo, slogan, red heart footer
- All notification texts translated in 8 languages (en/de/fr/es/nl/ru/zh/ar)
- Emails sent in each user's language preference

Notification Events:
- Trip invitation (member added)
- Booking created (new reservation)
- Vacay fusion invite
- Photos shared (Immich)
- Collab chat message
- Packing list category assignment

User Notification Preferences:
- Per-user toggle for each event type in Settings
- Addon-aware: Vacay/Collab/Photos toggles hidden when addon disabled
- Webhook opt-in per user

ICS Calendar Export:
- Download button next to PDF in day plan header
- Exports trip dates + all reservations with details
- Compatible with Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, Outlook

Technical:
- Nodemailer for SMTP
- notification_preferences DB table with per-event columns
- GET/PUT /auth/app-settings for admin config persistence
- POST /notifications/test-smtp for validation
- Dynamic imports for non-blocking notification sends

server/src/index.ts

@@ -160,6 +160,9 @@ app.use('/api/weather', weatherRoutes);
 app.use('/api/settings', settingsRoutes);
 app.use('/api/backup', backupRoutes);
 
+import notificationRoutes from './routes/notifications';
+app.use('/api/notifications', notificationRoutes);
+
 // Serve static files in production
 if (process.env.NODE_ENV === 'production') {
   const publicPath = path.join(__dirname, '../public');